Friday, December 11, 2009

all about wedding

Not exactly all.
But half of it and the process of getting a wedding event, THE MOST SUCCESSfull wedding.
Well, this is my father's sister's daughter's wedding, which actually means, my father's niece,
and urm well much easier if I say my cousin sister's wedding AHA.
Ive already post a post about me and mom going to KL on a train on wednesday right.
Well yeah, Im here for that wedding, U'um.

In Malay custom, each bride and groom have to prepare something as a present to each side and it has to be in odd numbers. And the bride have to give more than the groom.
Actually I was wondering why, then my mom said. People of the old times, means orang from dulu kala specifically women/bride is always a good cook. So, most of the gifts given will be food. Like preserved fruit, cakes or anything like traditional cakes. For example, the bride will give 9 and then the groom will give back 7.

But those customs had been modernise now.
The new trend now is giving a gadget like handphones for instant. Another example would be a set of perfume and stuff, a pair of clothing, shoes or handbag maybe, anything . And few of it will definitely be food ; fruits, cakes or anything which is totally eatable :)



I forgot whats the other 3, sorry .
And they do give something as souvenir to the guest who came to the wedding.
Normally people will give boiled eggs, but eggs is oftenly spoiled if were boiled earlier.
So, to make things much easier, people prefers candy as a gift. It is either wrapped or put in small container.

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